No one said online dating would be easy. And it isn’t – just ask my distraught male friends and they’ll have a story or ten to tell you.
We’ve been spoiled for choice when it comes to dating apps. Tinder https://gorgeousbrides.net/pt/blog/custo-e-precos/, Hinge, OkCupid and Bumble have bestowed upon us a fantasy of the perfect match – they’re out there, a bouquet of flowers in hand, ready to love us.
But in this pursuit of The One, we accidentally bump into The Unwanted: a coworker. It’s never not awkward. And it gets worse when you see that they’ve swiped right for you.
Many organisations have rules regarding dating in the workplace – some allow it, some disallow it, and some have exceptions. But regardless, it’s a slippery slope to consider getting into a relationship with a coworker. So, what can you do if a coworker has swiped right on you? And what if you think they’re cute and you actually want to swipe back? Team Kool Kanya has you covered.
What to do when your coworker right-swipes you on a dating app
- Evaluate how you feel
Does this right swipe excite you? Does it make you feel flattered? Articulate your feelings to yourself, but don’t act on them immediately. If it’s something you’d like to go ahead with, consider the next steps.
If your company is not okay with two coworkers getting their flirt on, your decision has been made for you. Being risky can be fun, but that is best kept for the bedroom. If you’ve worked hard to get the job you’re at, this hassle is hardly worth it. You’ll find love in another corner of the world (not your office).
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